tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7503850091829735057.post3411022473126064543..comments2023-03-31T02:19:53.281-07:00Comments on Married To PCOS: Weathering The StormsMatthewhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06353389703546669413noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7503850091829735057.post-26617911350366932852020-03-13T06:12:34.178-07:002020-03-13T06:12:34.178-07:00There is a safe & effective Natural Herbal Med...There is a safe & effective Natural Herbal Medicine. For Total Cure Call +2349010754824, or email him drrealakhigbe@gmail.com For an Appointment with (Dr.) AKHIGBE contact him. Treatment with Natural Herbal Cure. For:Dengue Fever, Malaria. Painful or Irregular Menstruation. HIV/Aids. Diabetics. Vaginal Infections. Vaginal Discharge. Itching Of the Private Part. Breast Infection. Discharge from Breast. Breast Pain & Itching. Lower Abdominal Pain. No Periods or Periods Suddenly Stop. Women Sexual Problems. High Blood Pressure Chronic Disease. 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He is a good herbalist doctor.Angelina Keffihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18014684659787535534noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7503850091829735057.post-15153090940918931432017-07-20T08:57:34.323-07:002017-07-20T08:57:34.323-07:00As a sign of gratitude for how my wife was saved f...As a sign of gratitude for how my wife was saved from PCOS, i decided to reach out to those still suffering from this.<br />My wife suffered pcos in the year 2013 and it was really tough and heartbreaking for me because he was my all and the symptoms were terrible, she always complain of heavy menstruation, and he always have difficulty falling asleep . we tried various therapies prescribed by our neurologist but none could cure her. I searched for a cure and i saw a testimony by someone who was cured and so many other with similar body problem, and he left the contact of the doctor who had the cure to pcos . I never imagined polycystic ovary syndrome. has a natural cure not until i contacted him and he assured me my wife will be fine. I got the herbal medication he recommended and my wife used it and in one months time he was fully okay even up till this moment he is so full of life. polycystic ovary syndrome. has a cure and it is a herbal cure contact the doctor for more info on drwilliams098675@gmail.com on how to get the medication. Thanks for reading my storykatehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06816946746595103127noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7503850091829735057.post-31125910250599246662017-01-29T13:58:02.115-08:002017-01-29T13:58:02.115-08:00OK I'm new to living with someone who has pcos...OK I'm new to living with someone who has pcos. My wife was just recently diagnosed with it and I want to support her through the whole thing but I don't know where to start. Please helpAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14187417983426394445noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7503850091829735057.post-20167677146054220992016-08-03T16:06:11.138-07:002016-08-03T16:06:11.138-07:00I was suffering from Polycystic Ovary Syndrome (PC...I was suffering from Polycystic Ovary Syndrome (PCOS) since my 19 years of age. Ever since i got married i have not been able to get pregnant, so i was completely barren due to this genetic disorder. I was prescribed several Clomid Meds but couldn't see any improvement. I would basically go from one outbreak to the next. Finally, on my best friend's recommendation, i decided to try the rescue herbal remedy which are made in liquid form with natural root and herbs from Dr Molemen.Within a few weeks, I could see improvements in the symptoms. <br />My Menstrual Period has been maintained to normal,I used this medicine for two weeks and after some months later i began to have some early symptoms of pregnancy, its been over a year and some months now since i used that medicine and i have successfully given birth to a child,after been childless for many years due to this PCOS Syndrome. I would recommend this medicine to my other friends out there who are suffering from PCOS to give this medicine a try.<br />contact : drmolemenspiritualtemple@gmail.com) or (dr.molemenspiritualtemple@yahoo.com) or call him +2347036013351.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7503850091829735057.post-28934680780703807762015-12-12T22:25:40.440-08:002015-12-12T22:25:40.440-08:00JD, just found this blog through my Wife actually....JD, just found this blog through my Wife actually. Just wanted to say that I am going through what you are going through. I have not been diagnosed with anxiety by a doctor, but have thought about going to get help. When I can start to feel a "storm" coming on from my wife I start to shut down and just let here come at me like a train. This pisses her off even more because don't respond to her ridiculous hurtful lashes. But I don't know what to say.. and the things I want to say when she cuts me deep would only make it worse. I can feel the myself get anxious and my blood boil, but feel trapped because there is no right answer or way to help her get through this "storm".<br /><br />My wife and I have been married a year and she was just diagnosed within the last few months. We have been together for 4 years now and the diagnosis has shed a lot of light into why she is the way she is.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09946590277628471360noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7503850091829735057.post-26451839174957840422015-10-31T14:06:15.003-07:002015-10-31T14:06:15.003-07:00Daniel, there have been studies showing that up to...Daniel, there have been studies showing that up to 30% of women with PCOS can also exhibit the signs of BPD. I don't think that my wife has a borderline personality, because I've seen huge changes when she's watching what she eats.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02876543442194092707noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7503850091829735057.post-81633435653014714222015-10-30T14:31:30.655-07:002015-10-30T14:31:30.655-07:00Matthew,
I want to thank you for your blog. Only ...Matthew,<br /><br />I want to thank you for your blog. Only two posts, but they've made all the difference in our marriage. I could finally understand why my wife acted the way she did, and steel myself for the "storms". We've found that a combination of a strict very low carb, gluten-free, and dairy free diet with the proper supplements, work wonders. She spends more days happy than in the "dark place" as I've grown to call it. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14008753545456996446noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7503850091829735057.post-51479456487237301382015-04-21T08:24:49.588-07:002015-04-21T08:24:49.588-07:00Thank you so much for sharing. My wife and I have ...Thank you so much for sharing. My wife and I have been married for four years now but have known each other for almost 20. She is the love of my life and my soul mate. We knew she had PCOS early into our marriage but to be honest I didn't give it much thought. Not to offend anyone but most of the time I just thought she was being dramatic. That may sound mean but what did I know, we married young and she has been my only serious relationship. What that meant for me was that I was still learning to love, I was still learning to be romantic, I was still learning compassion and understanding, and at the same time learning to deal with a disease that I regretfully labelled as dramatics. I couldn’t possibly appreciate or understand what she was going through without even trying. I am a very patient guy and always thought to myself, well, God put us together because I am probably one of the few that has the patience she needs. I never yell or get angry with her. I never say mean things to her or about her. I never threaten her. As her husband I want to protect her and shield her from any negativity. We have been through ups and downs which included being separated for about six months. I’ll be honest at times the frustration and rage that had been pointed in my direction made me want to run. I was doing my best to be a good husband and provide for our family and still was being thrust into a roller coaster of harsh downward spirals. This can be very frustrating, however, I took a vow to love and stand by her side no matter what. That vow is very important to me and if I were to break it in hard times then who am I and what do I stand for? My word is my bond so to speak. We have been talking more and more about PCOS recently as we are trying to get pregnant. She has been frustrated that I haven't tried to really understand what she goes through to try and make this happen. That is why I am here today and I can't thank you enough for your article. It has opened my eyes and made me realize that she is not just being dramatic. I am ashamed that I wrote it off that way. Again I don’t mean to offend anyone, I am a human and make mistakes. It is important that I am honest with myself and others so that we may relate and learn. This is a real thing and as I read your story I felt as if it was my story to the T. All I would have to do is edit some numbers and it is my story. I think husbands need to band together more to discuss this topic and learn from each other. Men can be closed off emotionally and not want to talk about things but I believe understanding what our wives are going through will build a stronger marriage. Understanding will allow us to discuss the topic better and show our wives that they are not alone. It will show them that we understand it is a disease and it is the enemy and that we will stand by their side to pull them out of the dark hole it can put them in. My wife is the sweetest person and as you said when she is pulled down by PCOS she is not herself. Who she is is a sweet, caring, loving, beautiful, giving, confident, strong, compassionate, and selfless individual. I am learning every day but will do my best to support her and nurture this beautiful life we have together. To the wives that may be reading this thank you for being patient with us. Thank you for sticking with us and giving us time to understand you. Thank you for opening up and letting us in to better understand you. Thank you for being vulnerable when it is hard. Thank you for not running. Thank you for being you. To the husbands reading this, stay strong. Educate yourself so you can understand the burden your wife bares. Support your wife and let the attacks roll off your shoulder knowing that when she comes out of the PCOS hole she will apologize and love you more for sticking through it.Davidhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13496963556173524768noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7503850091829735057.post-87622199692670009952014-02-06T09:16:26.808-08:002014-02-06T09:16:26.808-08:00I'm sending this to my boyfriend right now! I ...I'm sending this to my boyfriend right now! I hope he reads this because he sure as hell is dating someone with PCOS and has many storms. Thank you for posting this, I look forward to reading more and sending them along to my other half. Savvym25https://www.blogger.com/profile/10456782638751491512noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7503850091829735057.post-47094894978655557192013-10-11T16:13:31.233-07:002013-10-11T16:13:31.233-07:00How do you know it's pcos that causes the stor...How do you know it's pcos that causes the storms? Any research on this. My fiancé does the exact same and i think she'll not believe it unless I put research in front of herAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07030011776086848276noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7503850091829735057.post-12104729681770934812013-03-19T22:49:33.481-07:002013-03-19T22:49:33.481-07:00Hi Matthew,
I'm kind of blown away right now. ...Hi Matthew,<br />I'm kind of blown away right now. You see my wife also has these rages and they are directed at me. . after a few years of not knowing what was wrong and even starting to doubt myself I finally thought I found the problem. "Borderline Personality Disorder" Many, but not all of the BPS symptoms were there. If you don't know much a bout BPS. I really suggest you look into it. . . BUT my wife also very likely has PCOS! Do you think PCOS is a physical link to BPD?? I've never seen anyone link to that in the several books I've read about BPD. . but this is really interesting! Whether it is PCOS or BPD causing the rages and self-destructive behaviors. . . I do recommend books on BPD like "Stop Walking on Eggshells" to find strategies for dealing with her rages. Let me know what you think!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08715430269587926809noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7503850091829735057.post-7948959553622685022012-10-01T04:21:41.968-07:002012-10-01T04:21:41.968-07:00Thanks for the insight Mathew. I've been marri...Thanks for the insight Mathew. I've been married for 3 years. I am still struggling to understand my wife's behaviour. I am an emotional guy and I find it really hard to deal with her behaviour. Lashing out at me every now and then. It's like I've been living in a state of constant fear. <br />My other problem is that we live with me parents who are old and need care and they happen to fall in the line of fire too. I can still manage this but it's definitely hard for me to see my parents go through all this. <br />I was even under anti-anxiety medicine for a short while since I was finding it really hard to deal with all this. I love her, she's one of the most caring person I've ever known but when she looses it, she's a completely different person.<br />I just don't know the way ahead...JDhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14390859923136429342noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7503850091829735057.post-62633613492791798872012-04-05T04:06:11.204-07:002012-04-05T04:06:11.204-07:00As newly married woman living with PCOS I find thi...As newly married woman living with PCOS I find this post so enlightening.<br /><br />I never really looked at it from a mans point of view… besides after one of these raging storms as you put it, in which I feel like a raving lunatic and wonder how or why he puts up with me :(<br /><br />I wish I could tell you what helps it go away but I really don't know. (My technique has been to repress it until it boils up and spills over for weeks on end… not so great.)<br />All I know is that men like you are the most wonderful on the planet for standing by your PCOS wives.<br />My husbands way of dealing is to tell me to pull my socks up and get over it.<br />That there are people out there with real problems and that my life could certainly be worse.<br />I know he's trying to put it into perspective but at that moment all my usual sunniness is gone and I have no way of seeing his view.<br />Any tips you have for how to calm the storm would be most appreciated as when I'm in the middle of one even I don't know what i really want.Katerinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00423487717305629604noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7503850091829735057.post-12095148089940805862011-12-27T14:15:19.046-08:002011-12-27T14:15:19.046-08:00Matthew,
Thank you for following your wife's ...Matthew, <br />Thank you for following your wife's wishes and posting this. My wife was diagnosed just shortly after we were married his past March (we lived together for 4 years before though). My mother and sister both have pcos and that is why I eventually pushed to get my wife tested. She went straight onto Metformin which helped some of the metopausal symptoms, but the "emotional storms" as you so aptly put it are still present. Like Russ, I had never thought of jumping into the line of fire to get it over with quickly. I'm working on summoning the courage to try it. I kept a blog for a long time but she started using it as ammunition against me in her storms so I haven't blogged for a long time. I am encouraged to start it again and talk about my live with a pcos wife. Thanks, and I look forward to any future posts you have.Stewarthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08710400747804353192noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7503850091829735057.post-9284321444784380422011-08-16T21:31:19.847-07:002011-08-16T21:31:19.847-07:00Great post this week! I never thought of making my...Great post this week! I never thought of making myself the target of the anger. Usually I keep a safe distance and let it pass. I have found that when I try to hide things to protect her she says that I'm being to controlling. Her family has had issues with controlling behavior. It is true that when the mood swings occur it is like walking on eggshells. The best thing that I can do when she becomes angry is to serve her by cleaning or cooking a healthy meal. Once she realizes what I have done her emotions change from angry to loving.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16256727248661377089noreply@blogger.com